How To Use The Emotion Wheel To Better Understand Your Feelings

"The emotion wheel is a psychological tool that helps individuals identify and verbalize their complex emotions," therapist Genesis Espinoza, LMFT, explains. The wheel identifies eight primary human emotions and tiers of related, more nuanced versions of those primary emotions.

The tool has many variations (also known as the Junto, Geneva, or feelings wheel), but the wheel's overall goal is to clarify what's happening in our inner world, home in on the specific nuances of that emotional state, and understand the depth and purpose behind those emotions.

Psychologist Robert Plutchik, Ph.D., created one of the most popular versions of the emotion wheel, a flower-shaped diagram to visually illustrate our emotions and their various, adjacent relationships to each other. He believed that while humans have the capacity to experience over 34,000 unique emotions, there are eight primary, primordial emotions that serve as the foundation for other feelings, in all of their degrees and intensities, to exist and take place. 

"The eight primary emotions in the emotion wheel are sadness, anger, disgust, joy, trust, fear, surprise, and anticipation," Espinoza explains. "Humans also have secondary emotions, which are emotional reactions to an emotion such as the feeling of shame when angry or feeling fear as a result of anger."

According to research by psychologist David L. Robinson, it's important to respond to your emotions authentically to connect to your truest self. If the primary emotion is not felt, you can lose connection to that feeling and instead identify with the secondary emotion, which almost functions as a red herring to what's really happening. 

On the emotion wheel, the primary emotions are also grouped together in the center based on likeness and placed in direct opposition to its actual counter on the wheel to form its polar opposite. "Emotions exist along a spectrum of intensity," psychotherapist and trauma coach Dylesia Hampton Barner, LCSW, explains. "Polar opposite emotions serve the purpose of capturing the emotional states leading to the most heightened intensity within a particular emotion and provide guidance for what can happen when unwanted emotions go unaddressed. For instance, annoyance can become rage." 

The wheel can make it easier for you to grapple with your true feelings, make an informed decision that best serves you, and find a satisfying resolution. If you're struggling to pinpoint something you can't quite put your finger on, Espinoza recommends taking out the emotion wheel to identify the triggering event/situation/person affecting you and naming what you might be feeling until it resonates. 

"Notice what you are feeling. Allow yourself to feel your feelings. Notice the physical sensations in your body (i.e., pressure on chest, stomachache, headache). Then identify whether you are experiencing a primary or secondary emotion," she advises. Start with the basic emotions and then keep going until you find the word that closely describes your emotional experience. 

There isn't really a right or wrong way to use the wheel. What matters more is having a vocabulary that you can lean on when you need to add more detail to your emotions beyond the basic feeling of just feeling good or bad and not knowing why. By attuning to your body and paying attention to the external and internal factors that may be contributing to your feelings, this will help you slow down and co-regulate. 

When you are feeling an emotion, it's not an instantaneous or isolated phenomenon that exists within a vacuum. It happens in a mental sequence before cascading down to a physiological reaction to engage the entire body. Research indicates there are dynamic components1 that are all simultaneously going into our emotional processing that ultimately influence what we do next. 

"Associated with each emotion is an urge to act or express oneself, referred to as action tendency," she says. The action tendency motivates you into movement. There's a desire to spring into action and attend to the emotion by exerting some level of bodily feedback in the situation.

However, Barner says there may be atypical action responses referred to as trauma responses (flight, fight, freeze, or fawn), which are reactionary behaviors to stress, which can be adopted by those who have experienced abuse and/or threat. Thus, it can trigger an unconscious fight-or-flight response for trauma survivors if they find themselves in similar situations. This is important to note because that means they won't be able to process certain emotions clearly if it's been linked to trauma in the past.

As the body gets incorporated into our emotional response, it then moves into the appraisal phase as you scan the environment to look for context, cues, actions, stimuli, or people that may be arousing the emotion. There's an assessment taking place as you attempt to determine your mental and physical response. 

Most importantly, understanding your emotions helps you realize there isn't something wrong with you; it's just something you are going through, which relieves a sense of helplessness. 

"We can look at the imbalances in our jobs, relationships, and environments from a unique perspective. Instead of thinking there is something 'wrong' with us, we can ask, 'What emotional needs are not being met?'" life coach William Barker writes at mbg. 

"Some situations where the emotion wheel could come in handy are in situations when the individual doesn't know what she or he is feeling," Espinoza says. It doesn't sound challenging to begin there, but it can be hard to do if you're used to emotional avoidance. Emotions can be difficult in the moment, but ironically enough, leaving feelings unaddressed can often make things feel worse. It's more empowering to identify what you are feeling to validate your experience and go from there. 

For example, perhaps you're looking to try something new, like a work opportunity or relationship. But whenever you think about it, there's a wall of nerves and fear that makes it difficult to feel anything else. Taking the time to pause and round out your emotional experience will help you to notice the little bits of other feelings that are present too. 

To do this, Barner recommends paying attention to the factors that led to your emotional shift to identify and articulate those emotions. Over time, your response time will improve as you feel safer with your inner world. 

If you're finding it's hard to move past certain blocks on your own, Barner suggests approaching the wheel from a trauma-informed perspective to look out for any unknowns that may be preventing you from fully exploring your emotions. "With my clients, I guide them in exploring where else they've felt that way in their life, which provides context to identify the traumatic root of unwanted emotional states and atypical action tendencies." 

Barner says people can also use the wheel among friends and partners to help facilitate more healthy and honest communication. "As they become more direct about how they feel, their capacity to express their emotional needs increases, and they experience higher relationship satisfaction, even if that means detaching from those who cannot fulfill their needs."

The emotion wheel is a useful tool to consult as you expand toward being more open, honest, curious, and mindful about yourself. As you continue developing emotional self-awareness, you will feel more clear-minded and confident. Learning and tapping into your emotions will provide insight into any of your triggers and go a long way toward maintaining the positive, uplifting relationships in your life through enhanced communication. The good news is that everyone can attune to their emotions, but it will take some practice.